Singin The Blues...An Old Post Re-visited...Still Wanna Know
*Wondering..."will I always be alone?"*Okay so it's 7:08 pm, and haven't had much sleep...Not to mention the fact that I have to Go to work in about an hour and a half. Wow! What the h*ll was I thinking when I got out of bed in the first place? Don't really know actually. I thought I heard something in the other room, but come to find out...it was the people underneath me doing...well take a guess? So naturally I go straight for the computer...right now this boy(my computer) and I are having a serious relationship*wink* I can't take my hands off of him...*smiling* If only..well never mind I'll saved that for another entry.
As I sit here and check emails, visit my "pages" for interesting posts that surely I will responses to, I begin to ponder that same thing I ponder from time to time....Why is it that the man/woman you DON'T want, does all the things you like a man/woman to do...? (ie; constant phones, unexpected visits, flowers for no reason (so many you can't even breathe) letters, notes, gifts, poems....etc) and the ones that you DO want...don't? (ie; constant phones, unexpected visits, flowers for no reason(so many you can't even breathe), letters, notes, gifts...etc) I of course have a theory to the madness. I even began to share said theory with a friend of mine who clearly would like to challenge me on it (speak on it teej) Now you don't have to see it my way, I just feel this needs to be said and a comment must be read in order for this world I have so cleaverly created for myself can have rhyme and reason.
I think the reason why the ones we want are not the ones we get is because, they are not the ones who will keep it up after they have gotten our noses open. They already fill like hey, 'I might not call you every day (just to say hello or how was your day?) so why start?' And as for the ones who shower you with so much affection you need to bathe in reality after they are done...well, they know you are used to it so they figure hey, "I better keep this ish up or else she/he (don't want to leave anyone out*wink*) might flip out on me!" In either case I have yet to figured the whole thing out. Maybe I am the one with the jaded point of view. After all I am the first one to admit my flaws. Maybe someone else has a better explanation.
Remember this is just my opinion! I am always willing to hear what other ppl have to say:)
*Dee-Dee sitting down, flipping her note book open with pen in hand. Ready*
Comments
I hate it when my babygirl is being treated grimmy by any nigga!
She is a queen fellas and that's for real.
That intense passion makes you know you are loved...and when they step back for a little bit, you start to miss being the center of their world, so the chase is on again...am I making any sense?
I just know what didn't work for me (had one marriage go down the tubes and a few too many bad relationships) before I found THE ONE.
It was always the extremes (either too clingy or too cool) that eventually got old with me.
Sorry about the long post! :)
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Yeah we sure do that those things you mentioned that we as women do. And sure guys may do all the things he can to IMPRESS us...what I want to understand is why does it have to stop when I finally put my whole self in? I'm tried of playing HOKIE POKIE with my soul.
I am tried of meeting the "representative" when I get approached by a guy...show your true self in the beginning. That's all I ask so I can make a fair assumption:)
And I see you had an amen corner:)