For Crying Out Loud!...Why You Ask Me?
Is She Is Chained To His Pain?
*Linda is a trip...A Post reincarnated*
Now that my birthday has come and gone (Go Virgo's)...it's time to get back to the business at hand. Okay so let's talk about people who get caught in their ish and when other ppl find out about it they want to RUN AND HIDE! That's the problem I am having with someone right now...I won't call any names...Linda! *dee-dee covering her mouth like ooops!*
I mean they get to running like you did something to them. Like your the one in the wrong or something. Tell me this...why is it that your "so called friends" don't like to hear the freakin' truth? Why in the h*ll did you even ask me in the first place then? I mean I am the type of person who will tell you the truth no matter what. I have learned to take corrective criticism...so why can't you?
Okay so "Linda" calls and tells me that she and this guy I don't really approve of have been "hanging out" but they are..."just friends" and expects me to believe that ish. "First of all, he is MARRIED! Second of all he's MARRIED! And third of all...HE'S MARRIED FOOL!" She got an attitude when I told her that for the third time...how do I know she got an attitude folks?...cause this mess flies out her mouth..."I heard you the first time Dang."... Dang?..what kind of mess is that? She is seeing a MARRIED man and cops an attitude when I her best girlfriend calls her on that triflin mess! Oooooh!
Then she tells me that he told her that he is not happy with his Wife and that she (my girlfriend) doesn't ever see him with his wife, and that he wants to spoil her and all this other stuff.*yeah right*
First of all that was some straight BS he just spit at you. And the reason why you don't see her with him is because she is probably at home taking care of her HOME like a wife should. And he is most certainly not going to invite his WIFE out to his little f**k feasts with you...Ms. I'm so desperate to have a man!
Second of all you weak as h*ll, so he probably told you all that "I'm not happy at home crap knowing you gonna fall for it so he can get in your draws! (believe me I said all of this to her)
And Third of all if he has all this time and money in which to spoil you with, why are your bills past due?...Why is your car note not paid?...Why are your boys heads not cut?...I could go on and on here folks. I mean if a man say he wants to spoil me...then spoil me D*mn It! I shouldn't want for nothing. I mean I'll cater to my man....LIKE HE CATER ME! I personally am not the type of woman who finds herself in relationships with married men...but if you gonna play the game (cause some women do) play the game right shoooks!
Well needless to say she is not speaking to me anymore, nor is she returning any of my phone calls. O well! If there is one thing that she should have learned from all of this (besides the fact that messing with a MARRIED MAN is wrong as H*ll) it should be...Don't ask dee-dee a d*mn thang if you don't want the TRUTH...RUTH!
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I have friend who calls me up wit the same sad story, hurting, all in love, with someone who goes homes to someone else at night.
When I to her, the "truth" she too stopped speaking to me, REPEATEDLY.
And all the truth was, it that he's hurting you, the situtation is hurting you. And you've been stuck in this rut for some time now.
Like I told her, what kind of friend would I be, if I see you putting yourself in a predictable situation that will only hurt you.
Its like watching your friend light up a pipe, and you just watch.
What cracks me up, is how women who date married consider themselves to be in a "relationship." How does that work? I guess with cell phones, all is possible huh?
But either way, I love her dearly, and have learn to keep my mouth shut, and my distance, on watching my friend light up a pipe, cause she addicted. And everytime i speak on, she resent me, who just want her to stop hurting herself, and heal herself. I turn out to be the bad gal. So I let that be...
I'm praying for her, which is the best thing I can do for her right now.
And when her strength returns, I'm there.
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KZ
Yeah she is dead wrong for what she is doing and I will tell her behind this ish again...she just don't get it...HE WILL NEVER BE COMPLETLY HERS!
Teej...
Being grown don't make your ish right:( As a matter of fact it should make you more aware of the ish you do.
Electic Soul...
I asked myself that same question? Why such desperation...it's sad. thanks for coming by...I was at your house the other day:)
Foxy...
You forgot her food...lol:) I have to tell it like it is...rule broke!
BkBabe...
I think we do:) And when they finally come around and talk to you again...they haven't changed one single bit.
Georgiapeach...
See...that's what happens when you do ish like that...I'm sorry you friend has to go through that, but you reap what you sow:)
I'll stop by your way soon:)
Echo...
I try to make myself available to my friends in any way I can...now what I tell them (if it hurts) then they need to spill there jive to someone else...
Cane...
I'm worn out too dude...on that issue I'm done...
Princess...
Yes they are...I want to be the best girlfriend I can be to ppl...I would want the same done for me.:)
I can't post on your blog...email me I'll explain what's going on:)
Karen...
You said it perfect! Thanks:)
THC...
Thanks baby! Yes we do:)
Twin...
I know...ish like this makes it hard for women like me...
I know Schaumburg very well...Email me so I will have yours...and I will send some stuff to you:)
Knockout zed...
Thanks baby! I often drop by your way as well:)
I like how you put it to her though...plain and fucking simple!
btw, did you do all these drawings in your blog?
What's up girl...You know I'm the truth right?
Where do ya be hiding out at huh? I come by to see you and your not there...what's up with that? :)
Greg...
I have no idea...I guess I just care to much for my ppl...:)
'Ka...
You are so right ppl do that.
No I don't don't draw or paint...that Mills department...I find them on the internet:)