Treat Him Right...The Clean Up Women Are Coming...

I have a question...Why is it that when a Good Man...comes along, some women don't know how to treat him? Now before I start writing this entry I just want all the women out there (who's toes I might step on) to know..."I ain't scared of yo a**es...so get over it!!" They done messed up giving this sister here a space to speak her mind!!













Here's the deal. My girl Tasha...that's right I'm naming names!! She has this awesomely(is that's a word?) wonderful Man at home. He is very very good to her ya'll!! He works a full time job, picks up the child from the daycare, and he Loves to cook. I said he LOVES TO COOK!! That right there oughta get him an amen if nothing else. He has never gone out on their marriage she has even testified on that, and he loves her dirty drawls ya'll. This girl doesn't even have to work!! wtf?? He told her after they were married that she could quit her job and be a full time wife and mother if she wanted to. Now she stills has a job (good for her) but she is trifflin as h*ll ya'll!! Ahhhhhhhhh!! I'm getting madder and madder by the second:( That's right MADDER!)

Now first of all when I met Tasha she didn't strike me as the "settle down type". She was very loose and free with her love if you know what I mean. She had this mentality that if men could do it, then why can't I..."because there is a double standard when it comes to sexuality in the opposite sex that's why!!" Most men will call you a chickenhead or some dumb sh*t like that if you are free with your sexuality like they are (tell the truth) A woman can not just have sex with any man she wants to and get away with it...Oh! no your a "Whore" a "Tramp" a "Slut" all those names right there. I mean those were the names that most guys were calling her behind her back. So mind you when she told me she was getting married I was surprised. She was our little resident Samantha (sex in the city), and we loved her a** still!:) Well we thought that she was somehow ready for marriage and that Bry was the one to tame her...NOT EVEN!! This girl is still running around doing the same ol sloppy sh*t she used to do!!

Here she has this wonderful man who is being a MAN, and you still are not satisfied? wtf?? Here I am looking for good man to spoil me and treat me like the queen I am and this @#&* over here playing fella for a fool!! And what's worse is that he thinks she is a sweet angel and that she is faithful to their marriage. Stupid a**!! (sorry fella, it had to be said)

Women kill me with that "Ain't no good men out here" crap! The reason why you can't find a good man is because he is at home with his wife/girlfriend being FAITHFUL TO HER A** That's why? Men who are NOT trying to be faithful let you know that sh*t with the first couple of lines that comes out his mouth. I mean they don't want a commitment and they let you know that in some way or another...ie; (not calling your a** afterwards, calling you out of your name, treating you like crap indoors or out...etc) They just want to screw around and that's that. So when women do that same thing and try to act all hurt when that same sh*t happens to them, that freaking kills me!! Oh I know I ain't gonna get an amen for this here entry:(

You see she called me today and said something that sparked this huge debate and that is why I'm writing this entry in the first place. She asked me (because he has been working late a lot lately) if I thought he might be cheating on her...wtf?? Are you kidding me? Are you serious? That question right there let's me further know that she is on that CRACK!! "Why are you asking me? Ask your man. And if you still feel like he is lying to you, then tell him your little secret and maybe he will come clean."(sarcastic tone)

Man I tell you the truth some...(I said some) women are a trip! All I have to say is that the women who want a "good man" and desire a mate, out weigh the ones who just want to "screw around" and they have a name...they are called: The Clean Up Women! And what you won't do they will and damnit when you look up, you will be on the outside looking in.

Destiny's Child says it best when they sing:

..."Let me cater to you cause baby this is your day, do anything for my man baby you blow me away. I got your slippers, your dinner, your desert and so much more, anything you want...just let me cater to you."

*Tasha get your jive together or let him go!